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Adolescence marks the first step toward conscious individuation.
Out of the tantrums of the two-and-a-half year old, and the
cleverness of the seven-year old, into the assertiveness and
confidence of the 10-year old, there emerges suddenly
a mysterious thing. At the first opposition of Saturn to itself,
a new being materializes through the psyche.
As always, astrology recapitulates ontology, and now
we find that biological, neurological, psychological, phenomenological
and all the logicals cadence into perfect synchrony.
Recently several significant neurological research reports
have validated that the adolescent brain functions in ways
different from the child, and vastly different from the twenty-something
young adult. We all knew that, but the advent of technologies
such as magnetic resonance imaging, neuroscientists have discovered
that the adolescent brain is far from mature. Sandra Witelson,
a neuroscientist and McMaster University in Ontario, Canada,
says, The teenage brain is a work in progress.
This is a work that develops in fits and starts.
Thank God for magnetic resonance imaging! Would we ever have
suspected otherwise? Seriously, this quantified announcement
gives parents and teenagers alike a lot more credibility in
this mechanistic world - they now can prove that they are
not in their right minds - parents and teens alike!
But, of course, they are in their right minds, but the implications
of right changes and fluctuates, and at times
in the teen brain, right simply is not a concept, nor is wrong.
Their brains are testing responses to social patterning. Until
recently, it has been assumed that a child is all grown
up, and ready for proper decision-making by puberty. This
is as erroneous as assuming that at age 21 that one is all
grown up.
Working with psychological astrology, we know that the astrological
cycles and measurement show these conventional statements
not only to be misleading but also lie at the root of adult
neurosis. In itself the expectation to be all grown
up is terribly illusive, because I know personally,
as do my elderly clients, that one is never done with growing...
indviduation is a transitive verb, it is never finite. We
are always growing, we are never grown - psychically that
is.
Saturn in opposition to its natal position causes the delicate
balance between the inner Self and the rapidly changing ego
- the sense of I am-ness - to be severely threatened.
The homeostatic principle is compromised, and thus there is
no sense of sameness in the teenager - it is always different.
There is no real sense of order, or centre, hence so much
chaos. Every symbol of authority has some quality about it
that fairly begs for challenge. Both parent and child have
been unconsciously participating in a symbiotic relationship
that must separate in order to mature into a good parent/child
relationship.
The difficulty is that the child of fourteen
knows his or her limits, but resents them. The deep Self is becoming urgent in
its demands for expression. The unbearable yearning that the young man and woman
feel is the prima materia for the opus of life - literally the raw material out
of which character is moulded.
The ages from fourteen to about sixteen-and-a-half
recall the terrible twos on a more sophisticated level. The
Saturn opposition provokes an acute sensitivity to ambivalence and hypocrisy;
the more a young person experiences hidden messages, fluctuating or uncertain
values and double standards in the home, the more defensive and uncertain
will be his response to authority... and, the more vulnerable he will be in society,
where there are nothing but those questionable standards in evidence.
Temenos
for the sacred traveler It appears we are never more brain-active
than in this critical juncture in the maturation process. New technology
validates the suspicion that teenagers do not have all their circuits wired,
they are not fully connected. They are, indeed, transitional, liminal creatures.
In ancient myth, any individual in transition was considered to be protected
by the gods because they were not safe, they were without walls - between a known
point of departure, and a yet-to-be achieved destination and thus, were sacred.
Liminality
is a term I use to describe the status of being in the threshold of
change; it is a state of provisional and transitional being - the word itself
is derived from the Latin limen, threshold, and the earlier Greek, limn (limne)
- sea, pond, basin, lake. Psychologically, it is a place where one is not who
one used to be, but not yet who one is about to become. Sea journeys (Odyssey)
are associated with liminality (mid-life), crossings of great waters (I Ching),
and so on. And adolescence is lifes first great crossing-over and thus,
a state of sacredness, and one in which there is much wisdom and much
madness and filled with loneliness and isolation.
One very important thing
for a teenager is her own space. A temenos, if you will, a place wherein no stranger
can penetrate, no enemy of the soul might pass. This is a room of ones
own, a place where health standards may need to be enforced but where values,
tidiness and habit cannot be infringed upon. If a kids old cocoa cup has
become a green and purple furry science-project, mother may retrieve it, but only
upon invitation. The temenos of the teen room is for his or her own sanity, and
thus, the sanity of the household.
As we shall see, there is a work in
progress here, and the hermetically sealed alembic of the Room is necessary
for this first step on the path of individuation, and, a place to feel, be, and
think as one is, not as one should be. This room could be thought of as the Hermes
place, wherein the opus of life is being mysteriously processed, privately,
secretly and safely. Similarly, they need privacy in the mind, a place that is
sacred and sacrosanct - where they are not pried at endlessly. A kind of inner
room of ones own.
The astrological Mercury is the planet of youth,
and of childhood, but is also the planet which governs our perceptions, all five
of the senses and all our intake and process of data, information and so on. Mercury
runs the messages from parts of the brain to each other and from the brain to
the body, and vice versa. Thus, Mercury represents one of the first stages
of growing up, discriminating and understanding. Mercury is both the five senses
as a group as well as the extrasensory perceptions as states of awareness
- hence, the mercurial temperament.
The apparent instability of the teenagers
behaviour is directly linked to his or her work in progress...
that is, his or her literally fluctuating neuronal discharges, linkages and chemical
flows. One minute the kid is loving, the next slamming the door. Still being
forged are the connections between neurons that affect not only emotional skills,
but also physical and intellectual/mental abilities. That means it is unreasonable
to expect teens to organize multiple tasks, or to grasp abstract ideas that have
not originated within themselves. These undeveloped links lead to many of the
so-called symptoms of teenagerhood: aggression, depression, moodiness, self-absorption
and its attendant isolation. That there are neurological and biological effects
that are associated with these behaviours is helpful - it means that more understanding
can be offered the young journeyer, and his or her careers.
Wild
at heart In the limbic system, where raw emotions such as anger,
passion, and extreme joy are generated, there is a hyper-developmental
period in adolescence which creates the wild mood swings that the child goes through.
Yes, child, because the teen brain is more akin to his or her child brain that
to the eventual adult brain he or she will have.
The limbic system, located
deep in the brains interior, is associated with gut reactions - or the primal
urge. This is the function that gives us goose-bumps when suddenly
we see a large snake, or come upon something scary; or when our hair
raises, which is a literal experience of our vestigial pelts rippling at
the implication of danger, fear, or, at the other end of the spectrum,
surprise, pleasure, excitement and foreknowledge.
In adults, the primal
urge, or the limbic emotional responses are modulated in the prefrontal cortex,
the part of the brain that lies just behind the forehead, and acts as a kind of
mental guard, keeping watch on many parts of the brain, including this wild limbic
system. The prefrontal cortex is the seat of civilization, and we know that
civilized behaviour is not yet set in the child or the adolescent (and, not in
aberrated adults).
Executive functions are not part of the teen brain...
making wise decisions is simply not routinely possible, thus cannot be expected.
As their brains mature, so do their capacity for considered decision and appropriate
emotional response. One well documented test on the function of the limbic systems
and the prefrontal cortices in adults and teens showed something rather remarkable.
Magnetic resonance imaging machines take pictures of brain activity every three
seconds or so in order to see what parts of the brain is being used during
various types of processing.
Adult brains, the scientist discovered, light
up in both the limbic areas and the prefrontal cortex when looking at pictures
of facial expressions of fright, and when startled suddenly. Their alarm system
is connected to their capacity to comprehend the degree of danger within nano-seconds.
In teenagers, however, the prefrontal cortex was almost dark, while the limbic
system lit up! Hence, their alarm system is not yet wired to their intellectual
rationalization function.
Thus, early teenagers are not yet developed to
read social signals, like facial expressions, body language or other implicate
messages that we send unconsciously. So, a teen might say to her mother, seeing
a frown on her face, What did I do, why are you mad at me? when the
mother is angry with someone on the phone with whom shes had a disagreement.
The 15-year-old daughter may not know, prefrontal cortically, that is, to discriminate
in a sensible manner - the teen daughter will limbically rush off to her room,
slam the door, and feel put upon by her mother who frowned at the wrong time.
Mother, meanwhile is exasperated, thinking or even saying, Do you think
you are the only person in the world? Quite.
So, in the course of
this rather lengthy growth period, of about three to four years, the parent is
even more important in some ways, than they were in other stages of development.
Received wisdom says early childhood experiences create the primary trauma zones,
but this is clearly not true. Primary trauma zones are in accord with personal
transits coupled with a numinous event. Both factors need to be present for trauma
to occur. And, when there are major generic transits and personal natal transits
and events, then we have the material for both trauma and growth.
Trauma
associated with abandonment, abuse and unfair judgments from parents and adults
is more traumatic and more damaging in many, many socially developmental
ways, than at any other age. Because the advent of adolescence is marked by the
first opposition of Saturn to itself, it initiates a time of serious reorganization
of the physiological and psychological homeostatic principle (the stay-the-same
principle).
The dangers of authoritarian abuse, hypocrisy and ambivalence
are more destructive at this age because it is Saturn itself that is the keynote
planet. When the adolescent runs up against authority that isnt authentic,
then he or she rightfully resents and ignores warnings and admonitions, and
turns inward to seek self-authorization for actions.
The problem with that
response lies in the absolute fact that the teen brain is not prepared for
such a magnitude of problem-solving, and hence finds him or herself lonely, fearful,
angry and possibly endangered. Positive reinforcement of the teens need
for boundaries and focus helps that person become more capable of eventually
making good decisions and safe behaviours part
of his or her life.
Use your brain! Good
judgment is learned, true, but one cannot learn it if one does not have the necessary
hardware. This hardware is installed in the time-period in which the pre-frontal
cortex is in development. For instance, teens seem unable at times to decide the
order in which tasks need to be accomplished, and find that they are overwhelmed
when faced with simple decisions, like in which order to wash
the dishes, talk to a friend about homework, and read the book for a report due
that afternoon at class. They can collapse at this inundation of task function
- what am I saying, I can collapse at that, and apparently my prefrontal
cortical civilizing is done!
That teenagers leap before looking is
also normal, that they enter dangerous situations is assumed. Their modes of reckoning
appear to be illogical. A teenager will drive without a seat-belt, get into a
car in which his companion is drunk and driving, she might go with an unknown
man without thinking, they might smoke cigarettes in the face of universally known
danger, and so on. They get yelled at, Are you stupid? And, no they
are not stupid, but they are coming from a different place. Parents
and adults need to be aware of this - ideally, they must listen first, then guide
them accordingly.
There is an attraction to novelty. Novelty is attractive
to all intellectually stimulated people, but this kind of novelty has a frisson
of danger to it. Sex, drugs and rock n roll was the medias
theme of my own adolescence [post-W.W.II], but that was only a small part
of the archetype. In fact, it was a collective statement of political, spiritual,
consciousness and philosophical revolution that fed into religion, politics, world-awareness,
economics and freedom of speech and action!
The Uranus sextile to itself
at 14 brings in the revolutionary touch and quickens individuation. The Promethean
foresight that the teenager has is remarkable, and must be heard - listeners,
however, will be required to edit the emotional affect and the strident tones
in order to really hear the message of the future. They know who they
are about to become, and thus, are the megaphone of the future. It behooves
the over-40 person to hear this, because it will hint to them of conditions in
their own latter years.
Also, Uranus has to do with witnessing. The wise
person witnesses his own behaviour and moderates or augments it; a teenager
witnesses and generally fines fault. The sky god, Ouranos, from when comes the
astrological Uranus was a critical, masculine god who loathed imperfection. So
does the teenager - especially, his or her own apparent flaws. From this critique
can come great compassion... also, it can bring depression and rage.
The
quest for the parents In the 6th-century BCE poem by Homer, the
Odyssey, Odysseus son, Telemachus sets out to find his father. The Telemachia
is the interior story cast within the tale of the mid-life quest of his father.
This is an archetypal situation where the son must find his father. In doing so,
he must then overcome his [fathers] weaknesses and flaws as well as his
own. The father-quest is an inner quest often enacted as a genuine search for
meaning and contact with the actual father. For boys who do not have good father
contacts - either their dad or significant men around them - their journey
to father is long, hard and sometimes never fully achieved.
In part, this
male journey involves a separation from mother, and as much as this might sound
harsh, it is as necessary as cutting the umbilicus at birth. A mother knows in
her heart this must happen, and if she is skilled in doing this for her son, then
she will always have a champion. If she doesnt withdraw her own projections
on her son, then she will always have a baby. To paraphrase Robert Bly, the poet,
he might have to steal the key to the wild mans cage [his own masculinity]
from under the sleeping mothers pillow - a man tied to his mother
after 18 will have a hard time with women in his adult life.
Women seek
out the father too, but often to appease him, not to overthrow him. Agamemnon
and his brother Menelaos, along with their troops and a thousand ships
were waiting to set sail to Troy. In the course of the assembly of the ships and
troops, a stag, sacred to the independent goddess Artemis, is killed in a moment
of boredom by one of the waiting men. In retribution, Artemis becalms the sea,
and orders that Agamemnon must sacrifice his most valuable possession,
that being his lovely young daughter, Iphigenia.
Iphigenia is sent for,
under pretext of marriage to Achilles. After comprehending what her true fate
is meant to be, she pleads with her father to save her, then runs wildly through
the woods, like a young stag herself, and, finally, worn out, she returns and
offers herself for sacrifice.
We are led to believe that she does, heroically,
go to the altar willingly. Is this the altar of marriage or of sacrifice?
This is often unclear in the lives of some adolescent girls. And, fathers,
though not always as culpable as Agamemnon, often have sacrificed their teenage
daughters for less than the reputation of the Greek army.
It is essential
that a teenaged daughter is allowed to individuate away from her mother - especially
if she is very much like the mother. From womb to womb a womans fate is
woven, and daughters fate must not be to carry the mothers pain, often
which she willingly does. And, in being able to define herself as not mother
she generally arrives back to a comfortable conclusion about her own role, and
so does mother. A teenage girl needs to feel she is her own woman, rather like
Persephone who does eat the pomegranate, but also returns to the earth - hence,
to her mother - to fulfill her destiny as a whole and self-identified woman.
There
are many female archetypes that are more prevalent in these times - the return
of the various goddesses other than Hera, the obedient wife, means that new modes
are more available to women. As with men, women have had their focus sharply adjusted
in the latter part of the 20th century, and since now we are only days into the
21st century, it is too early to predict what will emerge collectively.
Icarus
and Persephone: archetypal teenagers on the loose
Immortal being The
most astounding aspect of adolescence is the preoccupation with mortality,
while not yet taking it on board. This is the time in life when indulgence in
existentialism - not as a degree course - is at its most intense. Teens
are obsessed with death. This is the first time in life when the biggest questions
are asked and answers sought. Teenagers are fascinated by the dark domain
of Hades. They are fearful of death, yet often seek it out consciously or unconsciously.
When
we stumble across our mortality (and some teenagers have experienced the
loss of a grandparent, even a parent, or family member), we are suddenly sobered.
Yet it is this very fear of death that catapults the experimental adult into
positions of extreme danger! The paradox! Eros and Thanatos are ensnared in a
passionate grip. The life force (Eros) and the death-wish (Thanatos) are
intertwined always, but the teenager has only just come upon this dialectic.
And,
he or she works it overtime. Death-defying acts, the teenage wasteland, the dark
night of the soul - all are the romance of the young. Give teenagers danger,
give them thrills, challenges and mind-altering experiences if you can -
ones which will hardwire them to perception, discrimination, emotional survival
and the thrill of success. They need to find ways of aligning their wildness with
their civilization - and discovering how to do that is a huge challenge to both
adults and adolescents.
The neurons that link emotional centers to
many other parts of the brain that produce feelings of intense pleasure are the
same set of neurons that are affected by certain drugs - cocaine and methedrine
and all associated compounds that are speedy and stimulating.
Thrill-seeking is part of growing up. I call it the Stage of Immortality; when
one is either walking in existential despair or leaping off tall buildings. This
phenomenon is also present in the puer/puella psyche, in the psyche of adults
who simply cannot get enough of the thrill of death-defying acts - either racing,
hang-gliding, bungee-jumping, getting drunk or diving into myriad relationships.
Dionysian acts of ecstasy are part of the religious fervour of the adolescent...
and, indeed, were rituals in the ancient world geared to internalizing the gods
and standing outside oneself - the literal meaning of ec-stacy.
The
phase of immortality goes along with this thrill-seeking aspect of
young adulthood. Pluto, the unseen one suddenly becomes exotic,
erotic and desirable.
The release of dopamine, one of the brain chemicals,
or neurotransmitters is what is responsible for these action-stimulating experiences.
That shaman of all cultures employ this ecstatic method for healing and divination
says much - the teenager is seeking godliness or near-godliness. This desire when
over-reaching is called hubris. And, sadly, teenagers are not exempt from
hubris, and as well see, there are mythological predecessors.
Not
much has changed since Icarus flew too close to the sun and Persephone was seduced
by the exotic Hades.
Icarus and Phaethon at the reins Icarus
was the son of a prominent architect in ancient Greece. Daedelos was a legendary
craftsman who was said to have migrated or was exiled from Athens to Crete, where
he was implored to construct a hollow cow for King Minos of Cretes wife,
Pasiphaë. Pasiphaë had developed an obsessive compulsion to make love
to a sacred white bull, a gift to Minos from Poseidon. From this strange union,
the Minotaur was born, and Daedelos was then contracted by Minos, to build
a labyrinth to house and hide the Minotaur. Already there are implications of
adult miscreance in the background of Icarus origins!
After
Daedelos had completed the construction of the Labyrinth, he was detained by Minos,
who imprisoned him on Crete. Daedalus conspired to escape, and made wings of wax
and feathers for himself and his teenage son, Icarus. They flew off the coast
of Crete and soared high into the sky. The surge of novelty, of adventure that
suffused Icarus clearly was not mediated by his prefrontal cortex, and his limbic
was in full throttle, and up, up he rose. Daedelos cried after him, Stop,
stop my son, you are flying too close to the sun! Your wings will melt, and you
will fall and drown! The rest is myth, Icarus flew too close to the sun,
flaunting hubris at Helios, and his wings melted, and he plummeted into the sea.
Could
Icarus help himself? Was Daedalus an irresponsible father?
Similarly,
in Saturn in Transit, I relate the story of Phaethon, son of Helios himself. Briefly,
Phaethons mother Clymene, sends him off on his adolescent father-quest,
after his peers taunt him that Helios is not really his father at all. Helios
receives Phaeton joyfully, thankful he has such a beautiful demi-god son, and
asks him what he most wants from him. Phaethon eyes his fathers chariot,
longing to drive it, and asks to propel the chariot of the sun across the sky
for the day. Helios realizes his error instantly, and tries to offer less daunting
gifts. To no avail.
Phaethon hops on, and even though Helios tries to dissuade
him because he loves him very much, crying:
Beware my son! I do not
want to give you The gift of death; there is time to change your prayer. Of
course you want the most convincing proof I am your father. That I give
you, surely, By fearing as I do. I am proved a father By a fathers
fear. Look at me! You see my face; Would you could see my heart and all the
cares Held there for you, my son.
Phaethon can no more see the love
in his fathers face than any other impassioned teenager might on the brink
of adventure. Phaethon holds his ground, and Helios, fearing for the universe,
hands him the reins of the chariot. Phaethon careens out of control across the
heavens, creating havoc and leaving destruction in his wake. The earth cringes,
rivers evaporate and dolphins hide as Phaethon, who does not know in which
direction/To turn the reins, does not know where the road is,/ And, even
if he knew, he could do nothing. Phaeton too late rues his headlong urge;
he crashes the chariot and is destroyed. The testosterone rush of the adolescent
boy overpowers his intellect, and these tales of ancient sons are not much different
than of our own.
Persephones phantom lover The
womans journey is also hormonally assisted. Her needs are exactly the same
as the sons - to challenge the authority of her parent, to be the one
to do it differently and to follow her heart to wherever it leads.
But, rather than up to the heavens, as in the case of the boys
journey, it is down - into the earth as is womans place.
Persephone,
the daughter of earth goddess Demeter and sky god Zeus, was with her girlfriends,
wandering in the fields of asphodel during a break in their school-lessons. All
the girls were cautioned not to separate, but to stay in a clique together, for
who knows what lurks outside the safety of the female pride.
Persephone,
a goddess herself, perhaps felt exempt from such admonitions - but then, too,
clever mortal teenagers feel exempt from warnings from boring schoolmistresses
and overzealous mothers.
Inevitably, she wandered off, indulging in a reverie
of her own, drawn perhaps by the sweet-pungent scent of the Narcissus flowers
that clustered on a certain hill, leading to a small gully. She found herself
lingering there, in the hollow depression full of Narcissi, when all of a sudden,
the ground cracked open, and up rushed a golden chariot driven by an unseen master.
She was taken.
Most of Persephones story takes place in the glamorous
realm of Hades - the underworld of the shades. And, like the fathers in the stories
above, Demeter was demented with fear and grief. Her story is the story of all
mothers who lose their daughters to the mysteries of womanhood. Demeter
spent a whole year in violent mourning, seeking her disappeared daughter,
and fighting for her return when she was told by a sheep-herder, Triptolemos,
that Persephone had been abducted by Hades, her own brother!
Demeter
knew exactly what had happened then, and in her prefrontal cortical maturity,
understood the implications. She summoned Zeus, Persephones father
- also a brother of Hades - and demanded her return. Zeus didnt seem to
think much wrong with the deflowering of his daughter, it all being in the
family, and so on. And, there was a catch.
If Persephone was to succumb
to the seduction, symbolized by eating three seeds from the fruit of the
underworld - the pomegranate, she then would be bound to the god Hades for
eternity. Persephone was easily manoeuvred, as many young girls are by exciting,
exotic, dark, bad-boys on motorcycles or golden chariots. Enchanted, she
bound herself to Hades, and became Queen of the Underworld.
Now, Demeter
was persistent, as mothers are. She employed Hermes to act as go-between,
and a bargain was struck: Persephone would be allowed to return to the earths
surface for part of the year, and then, return to her lover-husband for another
part of the year. This story is the origin of the mystery school of Demeter, as
well as the charter myth for the seasons of the earth, but more importantly to
us, now, is the mythic parallel to the romance and seduction of the adolescent
girl on the limb of womanhood, longing for love in dark and mysterious places.
Coming
of age So, as we see, all this neuronal development, and chemical
discrimination, along with the emergence of sex hormones, challenge the stability
of the teenager for about four or five years. Surges of testosterone at puberty
swell the amygdala, an almond shaped part of the limbic system that generates
feelings of fear and anger. This accounts for the rise in easy irritation
and aggression in both boys and girls. Increased levels of estrogen at puberty
are responsible for the sudden growth of the hippocampus, the part of the brain
that processes memory. The larger the hippocampus, the better the memory.
The
hippocampus in girls grows proportionally larger than it does in boys. This helps
explain why women are better than are at remembering complex social relationships,
and organizing and managing multiple tasks, all the while monitoring the
emotional affect of a situation.
It is thought that one of the last
steps to maturation of the brain is the coating of nerves with white matter,
myelin, which is akin to the insulation around an electrical wire. This coating
allows electrical impulses to travel down a nerve faster and more efficiently.
Hence a toddler is less coordinated than a ten-year old. It now appears that this
final stage of neurological/physiological maturation is not complete until
the early twenties, around and after the waning Saturn square to itself at 21,
and closer to the second Jupiter return at 24.
The nerves that become sheathed
in myelin during adolescence connect areas of the brain that regulate emotion,
judgment and impulse control (that old limbic!) are formed earlier in
girls than boys. This may help explain why teenage girls, still wild at heart,
are often more emotionally mature than boys. There are obviously cross-overs and
myriad combinations, but girls who are primarily fire and air sign types
are more impulsive than boys who are primarily earth and water sign types.
All
this implies that we are hard-wiring our brains in adolescence... and, thus, do
have some choices. Many teenagers instinctively are aware of this development
within themselves, and seek out ways of developing certain aspects of themselves
about which they are coming to awareness. For instance, does the young man want
to hard-wire himself toward sports? Physics? Helping profession?
Literary aspirations? Music, dance, art? Or, is he being grafted to crime? Drugs?
Violence? Mayhem? Couch-potato? All are there!
This hard work of wiring
means that kids are more susceptible than adults to the effects of drugs,
alcohol, tobacco and marijuana. It is not a cool thing, because it is possible
to permanently alter the balance of chemicals in the brain, thus the psyche
is prevented from unfolding as it was seeded to, and the folds of
the psyche are rerouted to accommodate synthetic stimulation. It is a good
idea to allow that balance to achieve itself if at all possible. That is why teens
must be encouraged to avoid these things, not because they are illegal. (Even
in the east, in Morocco and parts of India where hashish a way of elderly life,
that privilege is granted only to the elderly. Similarly in Asia and the orient,
where once opium was the approved drug of the elderly, it was not condoned in
young men).
The teen brain knows only natural law not mandated law. Threats
of imprisonment, deprivation of goodies, flogging or public humiliation will not
work - remember the limbic thrill of the dangerous adventure? Did Icarus
listen to Daedelos? Did Persephone think If I eat the pomegranate seeds,
I will be bound to Hades for eternity and that would really upset mother?
No. Then neither of them did.
Aphrodite Urania was midwived by Kronos,
and she has a role in the emotional and social development that is so turbulent
in adolescence. An opposition aspect is a Libran type of aspect, with a first-house
to seventh-house implication. The dual goddess comes in with her attendant, Eros,
will all her wiles in full bore. The adolescent is lifted to the highest
place of Platonic love of truth, beauty, wisdom and truth, and is plunged fully
into lust, sexuality and the sensual world of his or her own type.
Too,
this is the first time a young person experiences love on a peer level - often
falling in love with an older mentor, or a heroic figure, or a famous performer
as a safe place to practice love and romance. As the need for relationship becomes
keener, toward fifteen and sixteen, the capacity for self-examination deepens.
Adolescents become poets, philosophers, artists, all ardently exploring the
vastness of the universe for the first time. Then they begin to notice peers,
and fall in love with more accessible beloveds - someone in their own peer group.
Aphrodites
domain over this era continues as the adolescent develops more deeply into
the transitional stage. She not only rules love and desire, she also symbolizes
values, justice and ethics. All these aspects of the human psyche are first
truly tested in groups of teens and within each young person him or herself. Saturn
opposition at childhoods end is the time when all externally imposed
values are challenged, found wanting (naturally) and moderated according
to the individual, and, more significantly, according to the current times
that the teen is in, and thus, fore-shadowing the future aegis of that generation.
There is a lot of crying, Its not fair! And, a sympathetic parent
will agree to this, there is a lot going on that isnt fair. And, they need
to find the fairness in the world as it is seeded in themselves.
The
gathering of the tribes Jupiter is the god-planet of organized beliefs,
tribal affiliation, ideological mind-sets, transitional individuals and consensus
dogma. Tribal affiliation is so very important in the process of adolescence.
Because teenagers are transitional beings, they are sacred to Zeus and
to Hermes, guides of the liminal soul and the traveling person; and, by the by,
to Hekate the goddess of the underworld. Adolescence is when we identify not only
our philosophical affiliations, but our individuality in relation to the collective.
Tribes
are identified in indigenous cultures by their markings: jewellery/adornment;
hair style; clothing or lack thereof; marking - tattoos, piercing, scarification;
mobility - cars/bikes/skateboards; social hierarchies - techy, goth, hippie, nerd,
jock, druggie, punk and so on; ideologies: orthodox; heterodox; atheistic; pantheistic;
naturalist; intellectual and so on.
At the time in life when individualism
is so important, kids seem to be most attached to labelling themselves in accord
with an uncanny implicit call to adventure - even those who stand
outside the status quo of their ranking peers, have an aura of their own - the
outsider, the misfit, the geek, the fat boy, the retard, and so on. All the things
we dont like to admit to when we are limbically sophisticated. All these
rituals of ordering should help us realize that the adolescent is expressing his
or her most core Self, not the refined, semi-civilized self of the
post-Saturn return person who will emerge at the first Saturn return (around 29).
Crossing
the threshold: making sense of it all In the eighteenth year, Saturn
forms a trine to itself, and being a closing trine it has the qualities of Jupiter
and the ninth house, and Sagittarius. The experiments of the 14- through 18-year
period are now applied to a working philosophy. This age also coincides with the
Saros cycle, the advent of the return of the Moons nodes to their natal
axis. The nodes are associated with incarnation and the purpose of the incarnate
life. A life-path often emerges out of this phase; a working pattern begins to
develop and the final stages of the liminal phase of adolescence is technically
over. This is the time of creative manifestation of the trials and tribulations,
successes and achieved wisdom of the adolescent transition.
Very often,
a vocational calling is heard at around eighteen or nineteen, which will be reviewed
and shifted to a new level at the next nodal return - age thirty-eight, and the
advent of mid-life. And, thus begins the working model of the adult to be.
Referring
back to the Jupiterian ethos of this phase, it heralds freedom of thought, action
and deed. The world of justice and ethics rises to meet the mind of the youthful
philosopher. As with the Saturn opposition, where a sense of justice is developing
on an interpersonal level (the Venus influence), this period too sees a growing
sense of justice - however, a larger collective is involved and there is
a powerful sense of social justice. Maturity has brought to the mind an awareness
of politics in the sense of the intricate mechanisms and behaviour patterns
that underlie the interaction of people in society. Matters political and judicial,
world conditions, and the ideals that will create new societies are of unending
concern to the new citizen.
Although the wiring in the brain still is completing
its circuitry, the last thrust of the limbic and the fast encroaching establishment
of prefrontal cortical sensibilities(!) are creating the future - yours and
mine.
So, when you say to your apparently silly teenager, Use your
brain, be assured that they are - and more actively, interestingly,
challengingly and radically than you are!
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